Sometimes a big idea can be daunting, especially since it is often much easier to think of brilliant ideas than act on those ideas. In fact, Forbes says “giving ideas life is much like giving birth to a child.” All jokes aside, there is validity here! Since most folks are working from home now, we thought it would be an excellent time to give you some tips on how to turn your ideas into action!

Goal Setting:

Fast Company highlights the importance of first setting a goal. Defining your end result is critical, no matter how abstract. Physically writing down goals rather than keeping them in your head is a great start. Following this step, visualize!

Visualization is an incredibly powerful tool and one that should never be overlooked. That same article explains how “Coming to understand and appreciate exactly what you’re trying to reach is the first step toward actually reaching it.” It is okay to daydream, as long as it is productive! Imagining the feelings and emotions that come with achieving your goal puts you one step closer!

Be Confident:

Another component to bringing ideas to fruition is believing in yourself. Most people quit working towards a goal because the consequences are too difficult. Accountability plays a key role here, and Forbes says this “requires believing in yourself enough to be 100% dedicated to getting the work done.” To build on this confidence, have your own circle of advisers you trust and can learn from. Always be open to suggestions from anyone because you never know when you will hear a good idea.

Have a Road Map:

Roughly jot down how you will get from point A to point B. If you get stuck, take a break. Figure out who from your circle of advisers could help you, or any resources you already have that could be of aid. Once you are done planning it is time to turn those ideas into action. It can be sloppy but needs to be good enough to share with those you trust. Then revisit your rough draft and focus on the details. Once you are ready, plan what channels and tools you will use to share it with others.

Patience is a Virtue:

This is where true grit and determination come into play. As stated earlier, it takes relentless pursuit to make ideas a reality. As the saying goes, “If it were easy, everyone would do it.” Patience is what separates great entrepreneurs from mediocre dreamers. Adjusting your mindset to welcome risk is a key part of this step. With every new idea comes risk, so learn to expect unexpected outcomes.

Have Passion and a Purpose:

If your passion for your work shines through, you will be an inspiration to others. This will open countless doors for you. Purpose is the fuel behind why you do what you do- without this, you are more likely to quit along the way. The Porch is committed to turning ideas into action; make the commitment to yourself today!

Sometimes I think the myth of work/life balance was designed to drive people crazy. People are encouraged, prodded even, to give all aspects of their life equal value and equal effort all the time. Be awesome at work! Have the neatest, tidiest house on the block! Be the perfect spouse!

It’s exhausting. And to a life-long worrier, it’s like cat-nip. If cat-nip was addicting but not at all enjoyable.

It should be called a work/life balancing act – something that is dipping from one side to another, always in flux. The word “balance” alone implies that you should shoot for a neat state of equilibrium all the time. And that is ridiculous.

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It is human nature to think that the grass is greener on the other side.

I always look at other people with envy and awe at how much better at adulting everyone else around me seems to be.

Only snippets of people’s lives are visible to us. We don’t see our co-workers frantically trying to hustle their kids out the door in the morning because they’re late for school, or their hour-long commute to work, or the guilt they feel for ordering pizza for dinner because they are too exhausted to even think about making dinner.

Often, we only see people at their best, not at their frantic worst. Everyone, everyone, has rough spots in the lives. No one sails through life on a perfectly calm sea.

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Acknowledge that life is like that sometimes

My mom often said “Life is like that sometimes” when I was kid and it drove me crazy. I remember always thinking, “Well, maybe life shouldn’t be like that mom!” Well, my mom was right. Life is messy and the sooner we can accept this, the better.

I don’t think its any coincidence that the first three letters in acknowledge are A-C-K.

Figure out an everyday ritual or routine you can carve out each day

I find that when I take the time in the morning to have some quiet time to myself, have my cup of coffee, journal a little, and read, I feel a lot better. It’s a nice way to start off my day and when the rest of my day goes sideways, as it inevitably does, I can take some solace in having done something for myself.

This ritual can look different for everyone, and it doesn’t have to be the first thing in the morning. Maybe at the end of the night, you can have a mini-spa moment and slather on all the skin-care potions you want. Or start your day with prayer and a moment of gratitude. Whatever your ritual looks like, it can serve as a calming mental anchor when everything else in your day is beyond your control.

Exercise a different part of your brain

I am fortunate that my work involves a variety of tasks and projects. One day I might be designing some graphics for social media, another day I might be writing a marketing plan. I find that being able to switch between two disparate tasks helps with my well-being immensely. If I feel like one task is turning into a brain drain, I can do something else completely different.

What if your job doesn’t involve a lot of variety? Take up a hobby. And I don’t mean watching endless amounts of YouTube (guilty). I think when people hear “hobby” they think of buying a ton of art supplies and painting the next Mona Lisa.

The key to having an enjoyable hobby is to make it sustainable – a hobby that doesn’t take up a lot of time, mental effort or physical space. I used to paint and draw, but honestly, it feels like such a task to break out my paints and brushes sometimes. So, I read or rip into my bajillion magazines and make a mini-collage. Very satisfying and with minimal fuss.

You gotta let that stuff go

Julie says this to me all the time, in a variety of situations. And you know what, it’s true.

The bottom line is this: The idea of balance that society tries to force upon us doesn’t actually work with this thing called life. Stop feeling guilty for not achieving the ideal of balance and instead work on what makes you feel balanced.

Remember: guilt serves no one.

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There is always going to be something in your life that is out-of-balance. Great things can, and often do, happen out of messy accidents: penicillin, microwave ovens, Post-Its, the Slinky, the Pacemaker.

Do I think I am going to create the next great invention out of the detritus of my life? No. Do I think the best things often come out of the messiness and happen-stance of life? Yes.

For example…

I was a military child growing up and that meant moving a lot. From Kindergarten to High School, I changed schools nine times and moved six times. As a teenager, I remember thinking to myself “when I grow up, I do not want to marry a military man because I don’t want to move around a lot.” Then Fate said, “Hold my beer” and I married a railroader instead.

We have moved four times in eleven years and have never lived in one place more than four years. Moving around so much can be hard (getting a house ready to sell is exhausting). But I have made some great friends along the way and built my skillset in a way that has helped my career immensely.

And all that moving around as a kid was good for me too. It’s how I met my husband.

In college, I was worried about what in the world I was going to do with a History degree. One day, I literally stumbled upon a poster in the College of Arts & Sciences building that listed all the career fields you can go into with a liberal arts degree. And one of those fields was Public Relations. That set me on the career path in marketing that I am still on today.

In the moment, it’s difficult to see how all of this will play out in the end

It’s only in looking back that we can see that the hardest times can create fortitude, a skill or a friendship that helps us in the present. My first real job out of college, working for a PR agency, was like a PR bootcamp. It was hard. It was stressful. But I learned so much and there are skills I picked up during that time in my life that I still use today.

Plus, it’s how I met Julie. And thirteen years later, when she was looking for someone to join her agency, and I had just moved back to Texas, it all came together.

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No one knows how life is going to turn out. Sometimes you’re up, sometimes you’re down. So, instead of trying to chase down something that doesn’t exist and seemingly only serves to drive people crazy – like work/life balance – embrace the mess and accept the uncertainty. Your house will be a wreck, you will miss your kid’s soccer game, you will blow it at work.

It’s in the small, everyday efforts and messy moments of life that you are building up to something greater. You just don’t know it yet.

Remember, life is in the living. So, go live it.

Want to know a little secret? Summer is not, well, pleasant for me.

Don’t get me wrong! I love spending extra time with my children, the vacations, hanging with out of town visitors among other things.

Working parents have several balls in the air during the school year. When summer comes, those spherical objects spin and a multiply. Heck ~ I dream about them.

In addition to keeping my family’s schedule straight, as a small business owner, I am also managing my team’s vacation schedule and filling in the gaps where needed. Even rockers need vacations!

Here are some things for working parents to rely on during the month of August:

1. Camps – Even if it is one from 1-4 p.m., sign that boy or girl up.
2. Helpers – Full time babysitters, part time college helpers, couldn’t get through this chaos without them. I have three and only two kids. No joke.
3. Friends – Ditto. They help with the shuttle to and fro, the additional activities to keep the kiddos entertained and they are your go to for that much needed GNO.
4. Family members – Make the call. Most often than not, they want to help and spend time with your children without you around.
5. Your colleagues – Amazing how helpful they can be in a pinch if you just ask.
6. Exercise – It changes your mood and increases metabolism.
7. Mindless activity – Read a trashy novel, do the dishes, watch TV ~ I am currently obsessed with The Good Wife and watch an episode every night before I say nigh nigh. Already plowed through these this summer: Homeland, House of Cards, Revenge and Scandal. Started on episode one, season one on all of them.
8. Positive thinking – Think half full. Always. Being an optimist reduces your stress and is better for your overall health and well being.
9. Healthy eating – How do you feel after eating fast food? Nuff said.
10. Sleep – It is non-negotiable. We need seven to nine hours to be productive.
11. Music – It can have a powerful effect on mind and body far beyond its ability to promote relaxation and stress relief according to Dr. Andrew Weil.
12. To do list (Mine is a ta da list) – Hit the ground running in the mornings with focus and a list of tasks at hand. Here’s a great article to how to make yours effective.

Only a couple of weeks before school starts. You can do it!

One of my favorite movies of the year is Jobs. Who doesn’t like to watch Ashton Kutcher on any screen … sorry I digress …

They had me at, “Don’t be better. Be different.”The. Best. Marketing. Advice. ITHOE. 

In a few critical points in product development, Jobs calls in Steve Wozniak, to help him develop a new product for Atari (that was 1980 somethin’), reinvent the Macintosh, etc.

It got me thinking.

Who is my Woz? Everyone needs one (or 10) Wozs on their team.

Here are a few roles a Woz can play:

1. Whiz Bang Woz – The creative genius you run a situation or opportunity by, or pass off to, and they come up with THE brilliant idea
2. Practical Woz – The one who tells you, “They didn’t call your baby ugly.” Enough said.
3. Relationship Woz – The one who is your people person. Always looking at how thing are interpreted and will play out from the people side of the business.
4. Financial Woz – The one who asks you the real numbers questions. You may not like the questions they ask but know the answer. Thank goodness for these folks.
5. Work Life Woz – The one who reminds you to keep it real. The voice that is the same in your head. Work is for work. Enjoy and be present with your family.

Have them in your iPhone contacts and you are good to go.

It was homework for our team members to watch this movie.

One comment was, “Steve wasn’t a nice man.”

Truth. Sometimes the best business owners or leaders are not nice but they are smart enough to surround themselves with folks to remind them to be or they let others lead the people part of the business.

Have you met the Rockette and The Rock?

Julie Porter is the Chief Rocker at Front Porch Marketing. You can follow her or her company on Twitter @JulieDPorter01 and @ItsFrontPorch and Instagram @Julie_Porter and @ItsFrontPorch. Connect with her on LinkedIn or email her at julie@itsfrontporch.com.