Gratitude is so important to me. Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays for many reasons including celebrating all in which I have to be grateful. The Porter house plans for the day are football, family and of course food. My son is home which fills my heart. Daughter has signed on as the cruise director for the day, planning fun activities, as well as helping create the tablescape.

My kids always roll their eyes or sigh when I remind them to say please and thank you. These days it seems underrated. To me, gratitude is of the utmost importance.

Gratitude Should Be Expressed Every Day

Recently, a member of my new networking group was celebrating his birthday. He stood up and thanked everyone for the birthday wishes. Then, he proceeded to pass out dessert to everyone in the room. He shared for his birthday that he gives presents to those who have impacted his life. I was stunned. I also was moved at such a selfless gesture and one that I have yet to experience in my life.

Noted, and will be practiced by me annually from now on. Beyond that, I am so thankful for that experience. And I feel very blessed to have that person in my life now. I will be better learning from such a genuine, thoughtful and selfless leader.

Counting My Many Blessings and Giving Gratitude to Them

Personally, I am grateful for my children who wow and challenge me in a good and interesting way almost every day. Plus I have so many Texas and Florida people that lift my family. Thank you to y’all.

In addition, my friends are the best. First, they continue to put up with me. Second, they support me when needed as well as continue to show up whether in the background or foreground.

The Front Porch Team rocks. I don’t know what I did to work with brilliant, collaborative, kind and thoughtful people every day.

I am grateful for our rockin’ clients. Front Porch is only as good as our clients. And ours are outstanding. We have so much gratitude for them as they continue to collaborate with us and allow us to do our best work.

And, then there are our former team members and clients, who continue to engage with us. They keep sending us referrals. Also, they lend support in more ways than one.

Also, don’t know what we would do without our mental health peeps. Wow. I know my kids and I have the best. So thank you for taking care of us.

Last but not least, nonprofits in our community are making a true impact on many fronts. So much gratitude goes out to them. Most recently, for the magic that is The Hope Party benefiting the Grant Halliburton Foundation. The foundation’s work is a critical solution to the mental health for North Texas’ youth.

There are so many things I could drone on about that I am thankful for, but alas I am keeping in mind, dear reader, that your time is limited.

This and Every Thanksgiving, What Are You Thankful For?

We would love for you to share where your gratitude lies this Thanksgiving holiday. I am grateful for so much including those of you reading this blog post. Thank you to each one of you. And Happy Thanksgiving!

Small business owners pour their hearts into their businesses, so it’s no surprise that branding and messaging often feel deeply personal. But here’s the truth: effective marketing isn’t about what you like — it’s about what resonates with your audience. A message that caters to your audience’s needs, desires, and emotions is what drives connection, loyalty, and sales.

Yet, business owners sometimes unintentionally center their messaging on themselves or their products, missing opportunities to truly engage with their target audience. Shifting focus to your audience helps avoid two common pitfalls: talking too much about yourself and focusing solely on the product.

Why Audience-Centric Messaging Matters

Think about your favorite brands. Do you love them because they talk about how great they are? Or do you love them because they speak directly to your needs, solve your problems, or make you feel something?

Great messaging connects with people by addressing their emotions, solving their pain points, or helping them imagine a better future. It says, “We see you, and we’re here for you.” For small businesses, this means stepping back and crafting a message that puts your customers in the spotlight — not you or your product.

When you shift your perspective this way, your messaging becomes more relatable and impactful, fostering stronger relationships with your audience.

Pitfall 1: Talking Too Much About Yourself

It’s natural to feel proud of your accomplishments as a business owner. Maybe you’ve built something from the ground up, developed expertise in your field, or created a product you truly love. But when your messaging focuses too heavily on you, it can alienate your audience.

Statements like:

• “We’re the best in the business.”
• “Our founder has 20 years of experience.”
• “I wanted to create something that reflected my vision.”

…don’t tell your audience what’s in it for them. Instead, shift the focus with language like:

• “You deserve the best service, and we deliver it.”
• “You’ll benefit from two decades of expertise, ensuring a seamless experience.”
• “This product was designed with your needs in mind, to make your life easier.”

This doesn’t mean you should erase yourself from your brand entirely. Your story can add authenticity and personality, but it should always serve the audience. For example, share your “why” in a way that connects with their values:

• “As a busy parent, I know how hard it can be to find safe, eco-friendly toys. That’s why I created this line — to give families like yours peace of mind.”

Pitfall 2: Focusing Messaging Solely on the Product

The second common misstep is centering your message entirely on the features of your product or service. While features are important, they’re not the primary reason people buy something. They buy based on how the product makes them feel or because of the problem it solves.

Let’s say you own a coffee shop. Instead of simply advertising:

• “We serve organic, fair-trade coffee roasted in-house.”

Focus on what that means for the customer:

• “Start your morning with a cup of coffee you can feel good about—delicious, sustainable, and crafted just for you.”

Or, if you’re promoting a skincare line, shift from:

• “Our moisturizer contains hyaluronic acid and SPF 30.”

To:

• “Feel confident in your skin all day long with hydration that lasts and sun protection you can trust.”

The key is to connect features with benefits. Features tell what the product does; benefits explain why that matters to your audience.

How to Shift Your Messaging Focus

1. Start with Empathy: What are your audience’s pain points, goals, and values? Make these the foundation of your messaging.
2. Use “You” Language: Speak directly to your audience. Replace “We” and “I” with “You” wherever possible.
3. Test Your Messaging: When reviewing your messaging, ask yourself, Would my target customer care about this? If the answer is no, refocus on what matters to them.

Build a Connection, Not a Lecture

Your brand’s messaging isn’t for you — it’s for your audience. By shifting your focus from self-promotion and product features to addressing your audience’s needs and emotions, you can create marketing that truly resonates. Remember: it’s not about telling your story; it’s about how your story fits into theirs. When you prioritize their perspective, you’re not just selling — you’re building a relationship that lasts.

Here are some marketing questions for business owners and leaders to ponder to truly rock 2025. Start the year off right. First, ask and answer these questions to help your team succeed by aligning your collective efforts. Then, optimize your team’s performance with clarity, collaboration, conviction, consistency and connection — and 2025 will be your year. And finally, don’t forget to regularly track your progress.

Ask Yourself These Marketing Questions

What are my business goals?

To focus efforts and increase success rates, make sure your goals are SMART. SMART goals are specific, measurable, actionable, relevant and time bound. Areas in which to set goals are around your financial target, growth, operations and your team. In addition, set goals for yourself as a business leader. These goals can be around leadership, development, your role, work life balance, fitness, mental wellness, etc.

Does my brand and messaging reflect what my business is today?

Is your brand resonating with your team and your best target? Think about this. You have great clients or customers, a strong, best-of-class team, and a differentiating product or service. So is your brand a garage band? Or have you evolved your brand and messaging to reflect what your business has become?

What is my marketing budget?

Set your marketing budget for next year. This is one of the most important marketing questions for several reasons. Most companies’ marketing budget for 2025 is between 7–10% of revenue. Then you can align your activities and expectations once your number determined.

Who are my best customers/clients?

If you have data gathered, this will be easier. If not, you still need to answer this marketing question. Key metrics to consider include purchase frequency and recency. Also review the total revenue generated by that client or customer for the year. Further, consider customer loyalty — your net promoter score (NPS). In other words, how likely are they to recommend your brand to others?

How am I going to achieve set goals targeted at my best prospects in 2025?

Now you’re asking yourself one of the key marketing questions. From here you can develop your marketing road map. With your ideal customers identified, you can then tailor your marketing efforts to their preferences and needs. In addition, the budget you developed is also in play here, as marketing initiatives must be within that budget.

Do I have the right marketing team in place to rock my business in the new year?

For the most part, successful business leaders realize marketing should be done by professionals. They themselves should not be the marketers. Thus, evaluate your team and identify who is qualified to lead and execute your marketing team efforts to reach your goals. Most small businesses do not have that team internally. And most small business leaders know that an office manager isn’t their Chief Marketing Officer — that position should not be leading or executing marketing strategies and initiatives.

These Answers Will Start Your New Year Off Right

Cheers to a new year. Going forward, we are wishing you even greater business success in 2025. In addition, our wish for you and your team is to achieve optimal mental and physical health and happiness.

It’s officially November, so whether you’re ready or not, the holiday content season is here! Chances are you’re busy preparing for your Thanksgiving traditions. With not even a full month to get ready for Christmas after turkey day, undoubtedly Christmas planning is underway too! And let’s not forget about the increased pressures at work as you close out the year.  Raise your hand if you’re stressed out just thinking about it.

While we may not be able to ease your personal holiday anxieties, we can help lessen the burden and set you up for success when it comes to generating last-minute holiday content ideas to engage your online audience and boost your brand. So, sit back, kick your feet up, grab your favorite holiday drink and relax while we share some ideas to ensure the holidays are successful for your business.

Holiday Content Ideas to Fill Your Calendar

No matter if you’re looking to promote a product or service, engage on a deeper level with your audience, or a combination of the two, you can incorporate these suggestions into any online strategy.

• Capture the Festive Spirit of the Season

From turkeys to snowmen, mums to poinsettias and the rustling of leaves to Christmas carolers, your supporting imagery should catch the sights and sounds of the approaching holiday.

• Food, Food and More Food

What holiday festivity have you attended that food isn’t at the center of the celebration. So, why not incorporate your team’s favorite recipes for the season. You can carry this type of holiday content from Thanksgiving into the New Year. From favorite Thanksgiving dishes to holiday cookie decorating, cocktails to ring in the new year and healthy options for January 1.

• Give Back and Spread Kindness

It can be easy to get wrapped up in the hustle and bustle of the holidays and forget that others may need a hand during this time. Organize a team volunteer outing, donate to a local toy drive or spread simple acts of kindness. Share what your team has done, provide additional ideas and encourage others to join along with you.

• Holiday Destressing

You may be feeling a little on edge from all the holiday activities. Not to mention the shorter days and cooler temps. Share how you unwind this time of year as a weekly holiday content tip.  

• Personal Development

As the year comes to an end, we start to think about our resolutions or goals for the new year. Share personal or company intentions and tips on how you plan to reach your objectives.

Get Connected with Holiday Content

The holidays are all about creating meaningful interactions and these ideas will get you started on making those connections. We hope you put your own personal spin on a couple of our suggestions and then put them into action.